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Unconventional Paths to Leadership

Posted By Elvira Cortez: A President's Perspective, Thursday, October 10, 2019

Even before law school, I knew I wanted to be a civil litigator. Life, however, put me on a different path. I graduated in the middle of the Great Recession -- offers were rescinded, layoffs were at unprecedented levels, and it was extremely difficult for a recent graduate to find a job as an attorney.

Fortunately, I found an opportunity at a small firm focusing on insurance coverage. Although I had no interest in that practice area, it was a foot in the door. When an opportunity arose, I moved on to another firm, where I was able to gain the tools I needed to be a civil litigator. Now, I practice in an area that complements my skills, challenges me, and brings me pleasure.

My story is not unique. There are many women I know that had to take different paths to succeed. Reflecting back on my journey, I would have benefitted from advice and guidance from an experienced attorney. For those of you who want to consider other paths in the legal field or how to navigate through uninspiring legal work, this month’s luncheon will focus on unconventional paths to success. The luncheon will allow our members to learn from panelists who will share their insight on how each used creativity and ingenuity to excel in the practice of law and in the community. Register

 

Elvira Cortez practices business and commercial litigation and employment defense at Dinsmore & Shohl, LLP and is the 2019-2020 president of Lawyers Club.

 

  

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Guest Blog - Taking Ownership of Weakness: Leading Despite Uncertainty

Posted By Frantz Farreau, Tuesday, March 27, 2018
Guest Blog - Taking Ownership of Weakness: Leading Despite Uncertainty

 

I remember when I first started leading a counseling group at RJ Donovan State Prison. I was incredibly unsure of myself. Who am I, I thought, to lead this group, filled with people who are all so much older than I am? I felt thoroughly unqualified, and I believed that the group members would inevitably question my right to lead them. At the time, I did not realize that feeling unsure was a normal part of leading. I thought that leading a group meant that I came in with all the answers. I thought that I had to know exactly what was going to happen, exactly what I was going to say, exactly how people were going to respond. It was an unrealistic expectation, because everybody has uncertainty. All people, including people leading, are unsure of themselves at some point.

 

Ultimately, I opted to address the question head on. I told the group members that I was feeling unsure, and I wanted them to know that I would try my best, but to let me know what I could improve to help them as much as possible. By talking to the group members about my uncertainty, I was taking ownership of the fact that I was not perfect, but I was still in the lead. By addressing my uncertainty, I allowed both myself and the members of the group to see that I was able to lead even though I did not have all the answers.

 

When I decided to present my uncertainty to the group, I was quite surprised by the response: I found that the group members not only had no qualms about my being a leader, but were also thankful that I had demonstrated that it was okay to be unsure. When they saw me talk about my concerns, they saw me model what they needed to do to address their concerns about their own lives. In showing my vulnerability and uncertainty, I was still leading them because I was showing them what they needed to do to achieve their goals: ask for help. And they respected that. It is easy to sit from a facilitator chair and talk to the participants about the importance of being vulnerable. That is not true leadership. True leadership is being able to demonstrate so others can learn.

 

Going through that experience helped me understand that a leader continues to be inspiring, even in moments of vulnerability and weakness. Leaders are not inspirational because they have no uncertainty, they are inspirational because they show us that having foibles is okay. They are willing to be open about facing challenges and in so doing demonstrate strength. When leaders take ownership of their weaknesses, it makes us realize that we are strong enough to lead and inspire ourselves.

 

Frantz C. Farreau wrote this for Lawyers Club’s Leadership Development Committee, and is an attorney, real estate agent, and the volunteer coordinator for the Restorative Justice Reentry Prep Program at RJMP in San Diego. 

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